16 unbeatable blowjob tips: From toys to sophisticated oral sex techniques

Oral sex, also known as oral sex, is one of the most intimate and sensual forms of sexual pleasure. It includes both cunnilingus and fellatio, the act of licking and sucking the penis. In this article we'll focus on the art of the blowjob, a technique that many men find extremely satisfying. A good blowjob can not only promote physical pleasure, but also emotional closeness. We give you seventeen tips for the best blowjob and introduce you to blowjob masturbators that can intensify the experience even more.

Maximum enjoyment: 16 tips for the perfect blowjob

1. Communication is key

   Above all else, it's important to talk to your partner about their likes and dislikes. Communication builds trust and allows you to find out what really makes him excited. Ask whether he prefers gentle touch or more intense stimulation, and adjust your techniques accordingly. Many women find that open conversations improve the experience for both of them.

2. Create a relaxed atmosphere

   A relaxed and comfortable setting can work wonders. Dim the lights, play soft music, and make sure you both feel comfortable. A relaxed atmosphere helps to reduce tension and make the experience more enjoyable for both. Pleasant foreplay can pave the way to the perfect blowjob.

3. Start slowly

   Start slowly and increase gradually. Light kisses, gentle licking, and gentle sucking are ideal techniques to slowly build arousal. Observe the reactions and find out what he particularly likes. While sucking, putting the penis in your mouth and sucking gently can increase arousal.

4. Use your hands

   Hands are an indispensable tool in blowjobs. Use it to stimulate the shaft of the penis while focusing on the glans with your mouth. The combination of hand and mouth techniques can be particularly intense and excitingbe. It can be helpful to use saliva as a natural lubricant.

5. Play with your tongue

   Using the tongue offers a variety of possibilities. Run your tongue in circles around the glans, lick along the underside of the penis and experiment with different pressure levels and movements. These variations can create different sensations and increase arousal.

6. Use lubricant

   Lubricant can reduce friction and make the experience more enjoyable. A water-based lubricant is ideal as it is gentle on the skin and washes off easily. There are also special lubricants with warming or cooling effects that can provide additional sensations. Flavored lube can also make the experience more pleasant for the woman.

7. Vary tempo and pressure

   A steady pace can quickly become monotonous. Therefore, vary the pace and strength of your movements. Alternating fast and slow phases, combined with different levels of pressure, can increase arousal and delay climax. Putting an ice cube in your mouth can provide additional sensory stimulation and make the experience particularly exciting. Some men also enjoy the feeling of gagging, but it is important to discuss this beforehand and respect boundaries.

8. Inclusion of the testicles

   The testicles are also very sensitive and can be gently involved. Lightly sucking or massaging the testicles can intensify the experience. Be careful, however, as the testicles are very sensitive and too much pressure can cause pain. Gentle stroking or even the use of sex toys can have a particularly stimulating effect. Pampering the testicles with your tongue can be particularly intense.

9. Pay attention to your breathing

   Even and relaxed breathing will help you last longer and make the experience more pleasant. Breathe deeply through your nose and find a rhythm that is comfortable for you. This helps you stay relaxed and in control. Taking the penis deep into your mouth can help control the gag reflex and make the experience more pleasurable.

10. Let your creativity run wild

    A blowjob doesn't always have to follow a fixed schedule. Let your creativity run wild and try out new techniques and tricks. Experiment with different positions, props, or even a mirror to improve visualization. Remember that fun and enjoyment should be the priority. Creatively incorporating a sex position or even playing with a vibrator can add variety to the experience.

11. Pay attention to the sensitive areas

    In addition to the glans and the shaft of the penis, there are other sensitive areas that you can pamper. These include the inner thighs, the perineum (the area between the anus and the testicles) and the testicles themselves. These zones can be pampered with gentle stroking, licking and kissing.

12. Use different techniques

    Alternate between different techniques to vary the stimulation. Deep penetration, gentle sucking and play with tongue and lips can combine to create a particularly intense experience. Remember that the penis is particularly sensitive in the mouth and different techniques can provide additional arousal.

13. Combine oral and manual massage

    While you use your mouth for oral sex, you can use your hands to provide additional stimulation. Combine oral techniques with manual movements to increase arousal and create an intense sensation. Most men find this combination particularly pleasant.

14. Integrate sex toys

    Sex toys can make the experience even more intense. A vibrator used on the testicles or perineum during a blowjob can provide additional sensations. Anal toys are also an absolute asset for men during this time. A prostate vibrator in particular creates incomparable sensations. The use of sex toys can make the experience more varied and provide additional stimulation.

15. Mastering Deep Throat

    Deep Throat is a technique that involves taking the penis deep into the mouth. To make this comfortable, it helps to gain control of the gag reflex. Start slowly and work your way up gradually. Deep breathing and relaxation are crucial. A position that you feel comfortable in can make the process easier and the experience more intense.

16. Sex positions

    Different sex positions can make the experience more comfortable and exciting for both partners. For example, the recipient can stand in front of you while kneeling while you are sitting or lying down. This allows you to be in a comfortable position and put the penis in your mouth. Another position is 69, in which both of them are satisfied orally at the same time.

Orgasm and hygiene

Orgasm: Orgasm is the pinnacle of sexual pleasure and can be intensified by a blowjob. Some men like you to keep going during climax, while others prefer a break. Be prepared and ask about their preferences to make the experience as pleasant as possible.

Hygiene: Hygiene is particularly important during oral sex to avoid sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). It is advisable to use condoms, especially with new or changing partners. A dental dam can also be used for protection. Regular testing for STDs and open communication about sexual health are essential to ensuring a safe and healthy sex life.

Semen and Preferences: Another topic that should be discussed is how to handle sperm. Some women prefer to swallow the sperm, while others prefer to spit it. You should agree on this beforehand.

In addition to the tips above, blowjob masturbators can be an exciting addition. These devices are specifically designed to simulate the feeling of a blowjob, offering an intense and realistic experience.

What are blowjob masturbators?

Blowjob masturbators are sex toys designed to mimic the feeling of oral sex. They are made of soft, flexible materials such as silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) and often have textured inner surfaces designed to simulate the sensations of real oral sex.